So here I am still looking for a couple/or single parent to help. I knew it wasn't going to be easy. I was really lucky before and when they chose to not forward it was hard. I am thankful to still have contact with them though.
So I have an add up, talked to two agencies about getting matched and I responded to a couple adds too. The only responses I have had to my add is from agencies. When I write back to them about what I have to offer and what may be a neg to match me they don't respond.
When I talked to the agencies I would like to work with they are nice and open to helping me. They also have been truthful in letting me know I will not be easy to match either. I am sure they will still keep me in mind but I have a feeling they will not be calling me soon.
The ones I have taken a chance on replying to their adds either don't respond back or say thanks but we were hoping for someone closer. I did have two single IMs that have sounded like they would be great to help but again not much more after that.
This is all part of being a surrogate with out insurance. Since I only work PT I don't have insurance from my employer. They would have to pay for a plan or do a cash program with the peri. It seems so many are not being covered for surrogacy and more girls are finding it much harder to match.
I still have hope though. I know I will find someone or they find me. They will be willing to do what it takes just to have me as their surrogate and I am willing to do what I can to help them.
I hope it doesn't take too long to be matched. I'm not getting any younger and it's such a joy to be in a journey together I want to share it all again.
As for the family. We just had Thanksgiving. It was a really great day. I had everyone over and the food was great too. The best part was that everyone got along and we just got to hang out and enjoy what the day had to offer.
Katy found out she is having a girl. We are so excited to have a little girl joining the family. We will be blessed with one of each now. Couldn't ask for anything more. My heart is full.
Tristen has been doing so much better with his words and learning his ABCs. He also has become quite the eater too. He use to barely eat and we were worried. But now he eats and eats. He really is a great kid.
This year is going to be a very tight Christmas. I have never been in such a position I am now and will not be able to give the gifts I have in the past. It saddens me but at the same time I am thankful to have my family and that is the most important part of the holidays.
For the New Year I hope to have more hour or a better job. I hope that Tyson has found a new job too. I look forward to the new year and new beginnings.
Blessing to all.